Basically, in life we get what we believe! If you think life is difficult, and that you have to work hard for everything you get in life, then that will be your experience of the world, and so things will continue to go along those set pathways to prove you are right, unless something happens to change your mind! If you think that life is wonderful, then again, that will be your experience of the world, and as before, you will continue to draw experiences into your consciousness to support your belief, unless something happens to change your mind!
Our core beliefs are formed during our early years, and we then filter our anything that doesn’t agree with those beliefs, because this is what we have learnt to be our reality. This is why the same thing can happen to two different people and one will say “this is the worst thing that has ever happened to me”, while another person may say “this is the best thing that has ever happened to me!” So we each experience our own lives differently.
Those experiences that go to make up our world start off in the conscious mind as just experiences, then are stored in the subconscious and eventually become our beliefs. This doesn’t mean that they are true, but just that they are true for US.
Often it will take a crisis to make us challenge our beliefs, and once we examine those beliefs in the light of day, we can begin to see that there may be another reality. One which serves us better and one which can help us to have a greater experience of life.
The work we do together is about finding that other reality, and making it work for us. It’s about finding out who you really are, and learning to not only like that person, but to love them. When you truly love and accept yourself just the way you are, everything in your world changes! Miracles happen! You can’t change other people, you can only change yourself, and when you change, people respond differently to you. This process can bring more joy, happiness and peace to you, and empower you to live your best life!
This life is a continuing journey and we never stop learning, so I hope you are able to find something that rings true on these pages, that may in some small way strike a chord with you, and facilitate that change. Feel free to share this information with others as you choose.